Is your lover your best friend? This is a really important question anyone should ask themselves if they consider their relationship to be serious. Your lover is someone who you spend a lot of time with, and if you want to be with this person for the rest of your life, or a long time, then you really need to enjoy this person. Sex is always an important thing in any relationship, but there might come a time when it gets boring for a while. This is where a lot of relationships go south. Sex can reveal things about your relationship that you never would have imagined. On the other hand, a committed relationship between two people can survive if the couple is more than just sex partners. If they are best friends, or even just friends, then they have a greater chance of overcoming complex obstacles that a relationship can encounter.
We all know that friends are very important, and we all depend on them from time to time. Well, who is the most important person that we should want to depend on? That should be our lover, or whatever you choose to call that significant other. If we want to put trust into that person, and put up with their issues, then you must like them, and want to see them do well. When things get tough you should always want to talk with your best friend. That might not be the first person that you go to, but they tend to have the most important influence on us.
I advise everyone to take a good look at their relationship, and ask himself or herself this very important question, is my lover my best friend? Even if your lover isn’t your best friend, do they have potential of being your best friend? Before you consider investing time into a person, take a long serious thought into this question. It can save your future.
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